Do you ever get down in the dumps about your body or yourself in general? Low confidence is very common in women, especially if you are self conscious and modest about your body. Sometimes, you might need a little something to boost your sexual confidence and to get you out of the rut you’ve found yourself in. If this sounds like you, there’s no need to fret because there are a few things you can do to be more sexually confident!
Start Looking at the Things You Like
First thing you can do for yourself is to remember that when you look in the mirror, try not to concentrate on the things you dislike. Instead, pay attention to the things you like about yourself. Maybe it’s your crystal-blue eyes. Or perhaps you have long legs that look like they belong on a super model.
Have a Friend or Partner Point Out the Good Things
There are many women who can’t see the good things about themselves because their eyes immediately focus on their flaws. To overcome this problem, it helps to have an honest friend or partner who will remind you of your beauty. And there’s no better time to be out with the negative and in with the positive, so start today by recognizing the attractive parts of your body.
Take a Few Pictures of Yourself
To boost your sexual confidence, you can also take pictures. You of course won’t want to post these on the Internet, but instead keep them for yourself and your partner or spouse. You could even book a boudoir session with a professional photographer. These types of photographers know the ins-and-outs of your positioning your body in a way and taking photos that will have you feeling sexier than ever.
Hygiene is Important
Feeling clean and fresh are both important to being confident in your own skin. So, it’s time to get out the razor and shave your genital area. Sure, it may seem a bit different from the ‘all natural way’ but being clean shaven is definitely the way to go. Have fun with it, and remember some of the more common shaving patterns include the triangle, plain Brazilian, and the landing strip.
Invest in Lingerie
Another excellent way to boost your sexual confidence is to spruce up your wardrobe by buying yourself sexy lingerie, including bras and panties. If it makes you feel sexy, then buy it. After all, it’s hard to feel sexy sitting around in baggy t-shirts and sweatpants, so treat yourself to something nice. Because tight clothes don’t always give off a flattering appearance, try to find clothes that compliment your body shape. No one is the same, so keep in mind that an outfit that looks great on someone else may not flatter your body, or vise versa.
Reality Checks are Important
On a regular basis, it’s important to give yourself a reality check. You’re not a porn star and you’re not a model, so don’t compare yourself to them. Half of them aren’t near as pretty as they seem on TV, and you rarely see all the people behind the scenes making them look like models. If you had your own personal stylists, you’d probably look absolutely amazing all the time too.
The main things to do is to relax and have fun! Don’t worry about what others think of you, and always do your best to surround yourself with people who lift you up, not those who judge and complain about your body. You only get one body, so embrace it, and love it.